Starting the homeschooling journey can feel daunting. Many parents wonder if they’re qualified, where to start, and how to develop an approach that’s right for their family. In this discussion, homeschooling moms June, Christina, and Maggie share insights into the initial steps of homeschooling, from discovering foundational philosophies to finding helpful resources. Their wisdom reminds us that homeschooling isn’t about achieving perfection from day one—it’s about creating a nurturing environment that fosters curiosity, growth, and meaningful family connections.

This is just part of a longer conversation between these homeschooling moms. You can read all the interview articles on our blog, or view the video interviews in our How I Homeschool course, available for free on My Compass Classroom.

Acknowledging the Commitment: Homeschooling as a Calling and a Job

Embracing Your Role as a Teacher and Parent

Maggie emphasizes that homeschooling is a significant commitment, one that goes beyond just teaching academics. “Teaching is a job,” she says, “and so is full-time parenting, full-time discipleship.” She explains that homeschooling involves wearing multiple hats—educator, parent, nurse, and sometimes even janitor. Acknowledging the depth of this role is the first step toward understanding what homeschooling truly requires.

Christina and June agree that entering homeschooling with realistic expectations is essential. Teaching at home is different from running a classroom; it’s about creating a holistic, nurturing environment that supports the unique needs of each child. This commitment isn’t only about academics; it’s about developing a family rhythm that values growth, discovery, and faith, if that’s important to your family.

Learning and Growing Alongside Your Children

One of the most encouraging messages these moms share is that homeschooling is also a journey of growth for parents. Christina highlights that it’s okay to be a learner alongside your child. “You don’t have to be an expert in every subject,” she assures, noting that a willingness to discover and learn together is often more impactful than expertise. This perspective shifts the pressure from needing to know everything to embracing a shared learning journey that can deepen both parent-child relationships and personal growth.

Seeking Wisdom in Foundational Books

Finding Inspiration and Clarity in Homeschooling Literature

For parents stepping into homeschooling, books can provide invaluable insight. Maggie and June bring up a few key titles that helped shape their understanding and approach. Maggie recalls her experience with Educating the Wholehearted Child by Clay and Sally Clarkson, describing it as her go-to book for resetting her focus. “The first four pages are powerful,” she says, explaining that it helped her clarify her purpose and values in homeschooling, especially during challenging times​.

June recommends For the Children’s Sake by Susan Schaeffer Macaulay, a book that builds on Charlotte Mason’s educational philosophy. This work emphasizes creating an enriching home environment where learning flows naturally throughout the day. Christina appreciates how Macaulay’s ideas center on developing a love for books, art, and nature, helping to establish an atmosphere of lifelong learning in the home.

Blending Different Educational Philosophies

Homeschooling doesn’t have to fit one rigid style. Christina encourages parents to explore different philosophies, from Charlotte Mason’s nature-focused approach to the classical model’s emphasis on foundational literature. “You might read a bit from each philosophy and blend what works for your family,” she says, advising new homeschoolers not to feel boxed into any one method. June notes that each family has unique needs, so it’s important to create a homeschool style that aligns with your values and supports your children’s individual growth.

Creating a Nurturing Learning Environment

Building a Home Atmosphere that Inspires Curiosity

The environment in which children learn can significantly impact their curiosity and enthusiasm. June describes the atmosphere in Christina’s home, where books are plentiful, children can explore nature just outside the door, and the layout is designed to encourage both play and learning. “Your children are surrounded by things that invite them to be curious,” she says, recalling her own inspiration upon seeing Christina’s homeschool setup for the first time​.

June emphasizes that homeschooling is as much about atmosphere as it is about curriculum. When children are surrounded by books, art, music, and nature, they develop a natural curiosity that doesn’t rely on formal schedules or rigid structures. Instead, learning becomes a part of daily life, woven into the fabric of home routines.

Keeping Learning Simple and Enjoyable

Homeschooling young children doesn’t require a strict academic schedule, especially in the early years. Maggie and Christina discuss how they focus on building a love for reading and creating positive experiences with learning, rather than pushing academics too early. June mentions the book Better Late Than Early by Raymond and Dorothy Moore, which advocates for allowing children to develop readiness for academics naturally. The Moores argue that young children benefit from play, nature, and gentle learning rather than rigorous academics, an approach that June found freeing and supportive for her family’s needs​.

Exploring Educational Philosophies and Discipleship

Integrating Discipleship and Worldview

For families who view homeschooling as an extension of their faith, integrating discipleship into daily routines is a central goal. Maggie shares how both Educating the Wholehearted Child and For the Children’s Sake emphasize the role of parents as guides in shaping their children’s worldview. She explains that when children grow up with discussions around scripture, character, and purpose, they develop a strong foundation that prepares them to engage thoughtfully with the world.

Christina appreciates that homeschooling allows families to address challenging ideas and questions within a safe environment. When reading a book that presents difficult themes or complex ideas, she explains, parents have the chance to discuss these with their children in a way that aligns with family values and beliefs. This approach fosters critical thinking and a grounded worldview.

The Value of Classical Literature

The classical education model also offers valuable insights for homeschooling families. While June doesn’t strictly follow the classical method, she’s found that many classical texts, like the Iliad and Odyssey, provide rich learning experiences. Reading these foundational works connects children to timeless stories and themes, giving them a sense of historical continuity and cultural literacy. June finds these texts inspiring and uses them to add depth to her children’s education, even if her family doesn’t adhere strictly to the classical approach​.

Embracing Flexibility and Joy in Learning

Allowing Time for Exploration and Growth

Homeschooling gives families the freedom to let learning unfold naturally. Christina notes that young children don’t need to master every subject immediately. Instead, the early years can be about building a foundation of curiosity, creativity, and joy in discovery. This relaxed approach allows children to explore their interests and develop a love for learning that will serve them throughout life.

June adds that homeschooling doesn’t require parents to “fill every gap” right away. By allowing children to take the lead in certain areas and providing a variety of resources, parents can create a homeschool experience that’s flexible and responsive to each child’s needs. This flexibility also allows parents to adapt and try new methods as they learn what works best for their family.

Enjoying the Journey Together

Finally, these homeschooling moms encourage new homeschoolers to enjoy the journey rather than focusing solely on outcomes. Christina reflects on how homeschooling has given her the opportunity to grow alongside her children. “You don’t have to be an expert in everything,” she says, “just willing to learn with them.” This approach brings a sense of shared adventure to homeschooling, transforming education into a bonding experience that strengthens family relationships.

June emphasizes the importance of maintaining a joyful spirit in homeschooling. Whether through reading aloud, exploring nature, or delving into classic stories, homeschooling is about cultivating a love for knowledge that transcends any particular method or curriculum. It’s about building a life of learning and wonder, one step at a time.

The First Steps of Homeschooling are Just the Beginning

Starting the homeschooling journey doesn’t require perfection or an elaborate plan; it simply requires a willingness to learn, explore, and grow alongside your children. By seeking wisdom in foundational books, creating a nurturing home environment, and embracing a flexible approach, you can build a homeschool that aligns with your family’s values and meets your children’s needs.

Homeschooling is an evolving path, one that allows for adjustments, discoveries, and meaningful moments of connection. As Maggie, Christina, and June remind us, homeschooling is as much about building a loving, curious, and faith-filled home as it is about academics. For families who feel called to this journey, the first steps of homeschooling are just the beginning of a fulfilling, lifelong adventure in learning together.

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